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Monday, October 18, 2010

Random thoughts...,..

I recently had a terrible incident in Bus while traveling from Delhi to UP during night ( 7pm to 10pm) The person who misbehaved with me was Hindu with big teeka on his forehead and I could guess through his conversation that he belongs to RSS and supports BJP. The only person who stood for me in bus was a Muslim , rest hindus were just sitting and watching the tamasha and listening silently what all abusive language the man was offering to me just coz I asked him to remove his hands.

Woman has no religion when she gets harassed and man has no religion when he makes her his target. No value system works against the filthy and lusty intentions of men, who else knows it better other then me. Being a woman my senses are now trained enough to identify such men..why to go far..they are often the faces of your own cousins and family members.


I am from typical Brahmin family...Amma doesn't even let onion come in her kitchen but i dint see even a single man in my family who doesn't use the Maa-Bahan ki Gaali (abusive language for mothers and sister --men often use viz Mother F**ker etc.) Is it also because of Muslim invasion ? Why to hurt other man, one has to abuse his mother or sister?

You must be knowing about Dev-Daasi pratha. Is this the way of respecting women dignity? aren't we adding one more filthy dimension to prostitution in a Godly package? Again, Muslims have nothing to do with it.


Sons are considered to carry the family tree and He is the one who can offer Agni at cremation ceremony , that is the main reason Hindus want one son in the family...not because to save their daughters from Muslim invaders. I don't know about south but come and see the condition in North. I have worked at grass root levels and seen how do they discriminate between boys and gals.

Islaam has polluted our roots, I agree but at the same time there are so many loopholes in the Hinduism we are following right now. Be it Ramayana or Mahabharta ..rights of women are always being violated in one or the other form. It was only Sita who had to give agni pariksha just because a Dhobi had doubts and had to go to jungle just coz her husband feels it right ? Did anybody ask what Sita ji wanted?

Why Draupadi had to have five husbands? just coz her mother-in-law asked her sons to distribute her amongst themselves ? why Dushashan had to remove her sari just coz Yudhister looses her in gambling ? Did any body get bothered about Draupadi's wish? Its an unending debate and I know just coz I have pointed it out I'll be questioned by men, for a woman is supposed to be mum for a good number of reasons and foremost reason is to maintain a decent decorum.

I know all I am writing over here is totally unorganized... Thoughts are just hitting me badly from one platform to another..lots of pent-up hidden thoughts eager to come out...coz this unending war a woman keep fighting from one stage to another can never be described in words.

Irony is that when testosterone gets triggered in a man to the extent that he is not able to control it, he forgets his religion & caste and eagerly search his target to calm it down. No religion and value system ever could help such men.

Cast-ism also is biggest black spot in Hinduism which I am sure, none of our Veda-Puraan supports (I have not studied Veda--but willing to do soon) Already woman suffers a lot and if she is a Dalit woman her sufferings are double. (Seen from my own eyes in villages of Rajasthan, UP, Uttrakhand , Delhi, Tamil-Nadu)

There is a strong need to introspect our own loop holes and developing correction processes to remove them rather then comparing ourselves with others, for before raising a finger we need to check may be more fingers are at our side........

Feeling like writing and writing :) but my office things need my attention... just a Random
Thanks and Regards..

2 comments:

  1. totally valid points !! i swear i never had a muslim guy abuse me or violate my personal space even in crowds !! its not that there are no rogues there ut its a human thing - our problems .. religion should not decide how good or bad a person is !!

    And yes, be it any era/decade, men always act superior , arrogant and insensitive to women ! things look changing, but for many its actually gotten worse coz of the comparison coming in picture !

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  2. Hi Archana

    Though you have Named the post Random Thoughts it is rather Relative thoughts..

    You have the knack of writing really well.i started reading ur blog just of the blue and could relate to it though i'm a "male".Emotions are quite effective regardless of the Gender.It has been put across very well.Crime is A Crime irrespective of his religion.

    "Irony is that when testosterone gets triggered in a man to the extent that he is not able to control it, he forgets his religion & caste and eagerly search his target to calm it down. No religion and value system ever could help such men."

    U'r Tweets sounded and feet Feminist but after reading i wonder if My own Sisters had gone through such a situation would they blame it on Science or Religion or Gender.The point that i Understand is Irrespective of the Male body having very high Testosterone it comes down to the fact that An Individual Male can Also be judged by his Behavior,Upbringing and that all males do not think the same of females.

    "I know all I am writing over here is totally unorganized... Thoughts are just hitting me badly from one platform to another..lots of pent-up hidden thoughts eager to come out...coz this unending war a woman keep fighting from one stage to another can never be described in words. "

    I think anger for people like u,me and millions like us can be through writing.Not just Anger but Happiness,Enthusiasm,Curiosity can also be used for the same medium.all of these may write just randomly,but when words begin to flow and there is no unorganizations ..its pure Emotion....

    I am not writing this to make a valid point or to Criticize or To Have an Opinion for the sake of Opinion...it was pure emotion of relating to a subject.

    Hope You Use U'r Emotion Quotient To Write more Articles.....

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